-俞寶欣

從小到大,曾因性別氣質不一樣遭受欺負,被叫「男人婆」。更甚,有人跟我說,穿裙子做得女人一點就是女人。就是一定要接受傳統性別規範。不能太蕩婦要清純,實際上,出位點就被叫「出風頭」,根本不是想做什麼就做什麼。或者,想做一名女政治人物,就被說你要過得平凡一點,不要做出位的事,你是平凡人要過平凡生活。為什麽我是女生就是要結婚生孩子有點小事業過平凡生活?我的身體是我自己,憑什麼不可以在社交網絡公諸同好,收埋就系好女仔?咩叫好女仔?其實真的是沒有人有最終的定義,全都是社會規範的定義。就像崔雪莉那樣,最終因性別上的網絡暴力而自殺。I'm slut and feminist, SO WAHT?

Ever since I was a child, I has been bullied because of my different gender expression. I have been called a "tomboy." Someone told me that a woman is a woman when wearing a skirt. It is necessary to accept the traditional gendered norms. You cannot be too slut; you have to be pure. In fact, if a girl is too standing out, she will be labelled as "showing off". You cannot just do whatever you want. Or if you want to be a female politician, you will be told to live an ordinary life, do not do anything standing out. You are an ordinary person with an ordinary life. Why is a girl necessarily to get married and have children? My body is belong to myself. Why can't I share my interests on social media? Hiding yourself means a good girl? What is a good girl? In fact, no one really has the final definition, it is all defined as social norms. Like Sulli, she eventually committed suicide due to gender-based cyber violence. I'm a slut and feminist, SO WAHT?